how am I supposed to deal with this

Just so occasionally you meet a woman with whom you just connect. and then when the conversation develops they suddenly start talking about their husbands

How am I supposed to deal with that when they declare themselves off limits there and then....

I mean a good conversation is never wrong... but... well... bloody hell.....

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Maybe make it clear from the start what you are looking for. Ask for honesty. Choose friends wisely. Why would a woman not say from the start that they are married? You must communicate better and clearly. I doubt you will find a partner here. Too many fakes and frauds. You would be better off looking locally. On say a meetup.com. Or looking for clubs or get-togethers who share your passions/interests, Tracos. I hope you drop those liars.