Am i in the wrong

Basically whenever my boyfriend is upset I ask him what the matter is then he goes on the defensive and says that i don't like it when he shows emotion but if he's upset i want to know why am i being guilt tripped or is it a toxic trait

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deathfairy ·

sounds toxic and like gaslighting

Bify123 · 26-30, M

@deathfairy me or him?

deathfairy ·

him;;; getting defensive for basically wanting him to open up to u, and then slamming the “u don’t like when i show emotion”

that’s manipulative af. @Bify123

Bify123 · 26-30, M

@deathfairy my thoughts exactly