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SW-User
I guess you could wait until it's destroyed you...

SW-User
@SW-User None of us are good at recognising the cue at sensing when it has finished and you are nearly destroyed.
My first wife’s illness left me withdrawn, fat and with high bp. I could no longer cope.
My first wife’s illness left me withdrawn, fat and with high bp. I could no longer cope.

SW-User
@SW-User But you had to get to that point before you realized you HAD to change things. I've been there too.

SW-User
@SW-User I know, even though your experiences are very different to mine, it is something we share.