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Relationship with her gives me stress.

In the classroom there’s a lead teacher and assistant teacher. I am the assistant and my co teacher is the lead. My job is to maintain order in the classroom while she gives lessons and to clean up to room. I clean every day and sometimes when the kids were occupied I would clean during the school day. She asked me to stop cleaning during the school day yo focus on the kids. So that’s what I did. Then she now tells me the room is not clean enough. Yet when I try to keep it clean throughout the day she complains and when I do it after the kids leave she still complains it’s not done well enough! She’s so nit picky. I told her this week the classroom didn’t look so perfect because I was asked by the principal to work the after school program as someone called out and didn’t have any time to clean after school. Then she said “oh you think they would’ve told me there’s such bad communication at this place”. (Does that sound like she complained about me to them?) She really bothers me and is not a positive person to be around at all yet I love the job and everyone else who works there. The last assistant only lasted a year with her there. She want’s everything to be perfect when that’s not reality. She also sometimes tells me about problems she has at home so maybe that has something to do with it but I don’t know. She also tells me this little girl is manipulating me when I don’t see that I have a close relationship with this kid and I sometimes wonder if she’s trying to turn me against the kids or something cause they all love me and she yells at them all. My relationship with her gives me stress. What should I do?
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Jobs aren’t easy to find, yet she’s a narcissist and you’ll never be able to please her.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
@Fifidog Her attitude and the things she says.
Did you chose this school for a reason?
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@Quimliqer no they were just who was hiring and I live down the street
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
@Fifidog So it’s convenient, that makes a difference. If you’re not against moving to another school it would be worth the time job hunting.
DDaverde · 61-69, M
Do it again with the principal !!
I understand your position . Been there when I was younger.. sucks ..
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@DDaverde should I just let it go in one ear and out the other? Is it worth arguing with her or just say yea yea yea to her when she complains again in the future?
DDaverde · 61-69, M
She’s a piece of shit that should not be teaching and it’s the schools job to clean the classroom!! Good Luke your a great person
To be a teacher! Thank you !
If she stresses you out document it and write down the incidences with the date time and
Weather so they can’t say you just wrote this stuff down I did when I was working black woman or bad white one? Just curious!
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@DDaverde I just don’t understand why she treats me like that she’s not very kind but I like this job. It just her who is like a monster. The school has the kids cleaning it during the day and she wants me to stay after she leaves to clean!! But I don’t wanna mention it to the higher ups cause the word gets around fast her and I don’t want her to think I’m complaining about her and treats me worse. What I did this time is have the conversation with her about the classroom in front of another teacher so she wouldn’t be rude to me. And then she just let it slide like it was nothing. White lol.

 
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