He’s blaming me for break up when he’s the one who cheated?

MY EX: He never wanted to go on dates with me, even when we did he was always looking at his phone texting people and not actively engaged with me in the date, would only look at himself in the mirror and compliment himself but not me, would prioritize his relationship with friends first when it came to hanging out, would tell me we need more space from each other.

ME: I stopped sleeping with him cause I was no longer feeling connected to him and he wasn’t satisfying me. He would blame it on me saying I’m spoiled and never satisfied with anything he does. He never took the time to hear me and I felt like I was talking to a brick wall. He was talking to other girls while dating me, ofcourse I wasn’t going to sleep with him. He would never even take me on dates I would be the one always paying because he didn’t work and then would call me a good digger or cheap when I would bring him to places I could afford.

WE BROKE UP: he says we broke up cause I stopped sleeping with him and says it’s my fault we’re not together anymore cause I broke up with him for talking to other girls but then he says he was talking to other girls cause I wasn’t satisfying him in bed. And then continues to say he wants a girlfriend to go on dates with and stuff when he was dating me he wouldn’t even do that stuff.

Who’s to blame here is it anyone’s fault?