Have no desire or interest for another relationship Ever since I broke up with my ex I’ve had n...

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Have no desire or interest for another relationship

Ever since I broke up with my ex I’ve had no interest or desire for a new relationship. Why? Is that normal? I dated him for 8 years. There are new guys who want to date me and although I like them I don’t want them and don’t want to get into...

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LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F

I feel the same way.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@LaylaTheTallGirl why do we feel this way?

LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F

@Fifidog I don’t know

solitaire · 41-45, F

I think you need some alone time to heal first before even considering another relationship.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@solitaire how long will it take me to heal. Will I ever even want another relationship?

PrincessVelvet · F

That will change with time. We all move on from those things in different ways. You won't feel like that forever so don't rush it. You'll know when it's right to move on.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@PrincessVelvet I don’t wanna rush it I’m just worried I won’t be ready again during my fertile years

SW-User

@Fifidog Your fertile years?. I know this seems harsh but…grow up.

deadteddy · 26-30, F

It’s normal and valid. Maybe one day when you’re older things will be different. Allow yourself to heal and enjoy your you time.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@deadteddy thanks it’s been a year and I feel a lot better like not being depressed and stuff but I just don’t want to be in a relationship and I worried I won’t want to ever again

Degbeme · 70-79, M

For some that is a normal feeling. There is no rush to get into another relationship. You`re still young.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Degbeme I’m worried they’ll be missed opportunities with a guy that I could really work out with

SW-User

Because you’re an attention seeker?

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

You need a break. Your heart needs one, your mind needs one, and your nervous system needs one.

Don't even think about it now.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@uncalled4 this guy wanted to go on a vacation with me after talking for a few months and I said no I’m not anywhere ready for that I still just want to get to know you and then I never heard back from him even when I texted him but then he just gave me a Christmas present so weird why would he not talk to me but give me a gift

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