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Do you mind your partner looking at porn or other people?

I send mine porn 24/7. He knows better than to open any links I send when others are around.馃ゲ
I know he loves me and finds me attractive but I also know just because we are dating doesn't mean that he doesn't find others attractive. And I know he's loyal so there is no need for me to feel afraid.
But it's also personal preference at the end of the day.
assemblingaknob26-30, F
Nahhhh. It's like...."I gotta look at porn because you don't do it for me"
Idk. Porn is so weird and unrealistic. Idk why people feel the need to watch something only meant to exploit their sexual hunger.
Juvia18-21, F
@assemblingaknob I can see that point of view too. I guess you could say I use it to exploit sexual hunger lmfao.
DerSilberneKonig122-25, M
Almost everyone i've heard say it's "unrealistic" hasn't liked porn, and that's cool, but imo "Unrealistic" is kinda the point , atleast for things like hentai.

as for actual porn, yeah the same thing goes but its much less extreme,sometimes your partner might not be in the mood, othertimes you may not have time to have sex, and some couples get off on watching it together, and some people just don't like actual sex, really just depends.

I personally wouldn't care, i mean at the end of the day, i'd rather have my partner watching porn than documentaries on how people kill each other 馃槶
Juvia18-21, F
@DerSilberneKonig1 it is unrealistic incredibly lmao. But I think as long as you know that, regular sex shouldn't be an issue. It's only an issue when people start having sex with this unrealistic impression where it becomes an issue I think.
DerSilberneKonig122-25, M
@Juvia Depends on what you watch, if youre watching pornstars then yes, but the homemade stuff hits different lol
ChiefWalksWith40oz26-30
Me & my gf show each other porn sometimes. Usually it's something we find wild or shocking though, it's not usually like "oh this is so hot, look" 馃槄

In person we might look at other people but we aren't obvious about it. If some chick has a beautiful ass though then one of us might be like "babe.. look 馃憖" because we both love a good butt 馃し

Also... You're back 馃槷
Juvia18-21, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz Omg tho I kinda do the same. I think it makes it less weird if you're open about it with one another like that(or at least in my experience).
And yeee, came back for probably a few days or something. Maybe a week. Who knows. I got busy with school and school is still kicking me but I was pretty happy about starting and stuff so I came back to share with everyone.
How you doing? How far along is your girl now?
NerdySoph26-30, F
Always best to be open and embrace instead of forbidding, which leads to it being done anyway, only in secret. That will lead to a lot of problems.
Watching some funny or great ones together would be cool for a couple.
MorbidCynicF
Porn is fine. I don鈥檛 approve of him checking out real people. If he does, he better make sure I stay ignorant to it.
Juvia18-21, F
@MorbidCynic yeah, checking out others very obviously is a no no tbh. Like everyone has stuff their comfortable with. When they make it obvious a little too much it is kinda weird
JesseInTX51-55, M
I don鈥檛 mind either at all. Don鈥檛 mind others checking her out. Don鈥檛 mind if she shows herself to others as well. Up to her.
CameliaF
It's fortunate that you may rest easy knowing he is devoted.
Juvia18-21, F
@Camelia Took time to get there. I guess it used to bother me at one point but now it's eh.
CameliaF
@Juvia Since you are still young, remember that things will change, but cherish the good times while they last.
JohnnyNoir56-60, M
Do you watch it together?
JohnnyNoir56-60, M
@Juvia I totally get that. As it should be
Juvia18-21, F
@JohnnyNoir I actually suggested it once to him and he said no for the reason I said before.
I think porn is stimulating to where it's distracting so it's probably why tbh. Too much reliance on it
JohnnyNoir56-60, M
@Juvia it sounds like it helps keep the sexual fires stoked in your relationship without distracting it. That's great
TexChikF
We watch porn together. I have no idea if he looks at other women, I would think every man does .
FreestyleArt31-35, M
I do mind....shit I don't have to worry about it since I'm single XD
Juvia18-21, F
@FreestyleArt I guess it used to bother me, the idea of it. But overtime it weirdly just was like eh.
I mean I find others attractive too. But my man is my only man.
OldGrandDadM
You have confidence in yourself and your relationship.
Juvia18-21, F
@OldGrandDad Definately now yes. But it definately didn't start that way. It takes time to develop.
uncalled456-60, M
I used to watch with my ex. She was very open-minded about things like that, but she was also conflicted.

Of course we find others attractive. And now that Hugh Jackman is available again, I'm expecting my gf to NEVER shut up about him, even more than when she NEVER shut up about him before.
Renaci36-40
Nah. They didn't suddenly go blind after all. Lol

 
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