@LamontCranston Agreed. His family is strange like that. They talk to each other but sometimes my husband seems to know absolutely nothing.
If she had even casual contact with his father for all these years why wouldn't she mention it or encourage him to speak to his own dam son?
It's all so weird that I just don't care to waste mental energy on it. It puts my husband in a weird spot but it is a chance for me to gain some family info (that's if he ever actually calls.)
Her audacity to say that his grandfather loves him??? Really???? Does he also love his own son?
It's just not my place to ask these things since I'm not close to her.