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Luckylu · 61-69, F
Probably the same reason you are interested in the one girl and not the other girl.
Some people are drawn to what they can't have, or to a challenge.
Many times it is where the person is in their life. I was once not interested in dating a certain man, he was a great guy but at the time, I was drawn to the bad boys, and the excitement. Later, after experiencing all the heartache from the bad boys, I realized I had made a mistake and should have at least given it a chance with the really great guy. By then it was too late.
Some people are drawn to what they can't have, or to a challenge.
Many times it is where the person is in their life. I was once not interested in dating a certain man, he was a great guy but at the time, I was drawn to the bad boys, and the excitement. Later, after experiencing all the heartache from the bad boys, I realized I had made a mistake and should have at least given it a chance with the really great guy. By then it was too late.
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
@Luckylu This is very true in many cases. Whenever I was a bad boy to someone, she would be interested in me much easier compared to whenever I was a nice guy.
Luckylu · 61-69, F
@LookingForTheSummer it’s a conundrum.
Luckylu · 61-69, F
@LookingForTheSummer I like bad boys but I want to be treated respectfully. So how do you get both and still be a bad boy?
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Luckylu · 61-69, F
@LookingForTheSummer Its good that you saw that and moved on.