
SW-User
He should be able to read the room and just said that sounds like a great idea to take a drive.
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GohantheThird · M
@Fifidog some people try to defuse a bad situation with dry humor. He might have been trying to do that with your mom's migraine. Whenever I did or said something wrong, I usually got my ex's wife glare. Maybe try something like that.

SW-User
@Fifidog don't bother explaining it to him. He sounds too immature to be in any sort of relationship
AndrewF · 51-55
@SW-User Much better, and if he cant read it then I doubt his maturity. First of all why both of you got your own place at least he has his own place?
GohantheThird · M
He probably just didn't want to be a third wheel and felt like he was in the way. He also is probably trying to avoid any codepency or coming across as needy, both of which are bad.
It shows respect I think.
It shows respect I think.
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@GohantheThird hmmm didn’t think of it that way I wonder if he was being more respectful or not being understanding?
GohantheThird · M
@Fifidog I'm sure he understands. You need to take care of your mom, so he opted to get out of the way rather than make things worse. He also probably isn't the greatest communicator, which explains why he said it the way he did.
Give the guy a break. Obviously he needs work, but let him make it up to you later.
Give the guy a break. Obviously he needs work, but let him make it up to you later.

SW-User
What is he 12???
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@SW-User lol 29 to be exact. How should he have responded/acted?
happygoluckygal · F
Did your mother not say anything about it. If not maybe let it go this time, but I think he should have just went for a ride and not said anything.
I assume he knew your mother had a migraine
I assume he knew your mother had a migraine
DailyFlash · 56-60, M
He sounds immature