NO.

Married Him and we're now a happy family

When it comes to relationships, I don’t worry what other people “think”. What matters is how he and I get along, how much we want to spend time together, do we enjoy whatever environment we are in… can we work thru our problems? …do we take turns doing things his way then my way? (Compromising, forgiving) if we can, then there’s a future together. Then, at that point if he has kids or parents or grandparents and visa versa, I would welcome them into my life as much as they welcome me into there’s. If they don’t want me around, I’ll find my own source of entertainment. If you can join in on the fun with his children, or even just be around, as an observer, and he is good with it, that’s what matters. Some parents are better at coping and managing their kids. I would mostly care about how well he gets along with HIS kids. Most people date first, then meet children later depending on how long the dad has been single or depending on the age of the children.

I don't see myself dating again, but if I did... the closest I could get to your example would be to date a granddad whose divorced son has custody of the kids. That would be ok, as long as "gramps" and I don't have to babysit every weekend. 😊

Possibly, if he was a good man, and a good father, and raised them right. And also, if his ex wasn't a homicidal psycho.

Probably not, I’m at a stage in life where my kids are grown up now.
I’d want someone who is in the in same position.

I know I'm not a woman, but teens? All I can hear in the home is "You're not my mom!!!" 😡

Did he kill the mother?
How does a Dood get custody?… 🤔

My husband would object

Yep i like kids

If I was into children, yes. I would think long and hard first at my present age and circumstances. I would not rule him out. Package deal though.

My guy (of 7+ years) has a 15 year old son who lives with us.
If our situation were to change, I [b]swear[/b] I’ll never do it again

Never.

I would yes. I love kids and I need a family.

If he's amazing, his kids are amazing too / why not :)

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