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SW-User
I think we're all loveable, but I don't think everyone gets the love they deserve. Personally, I'm done thinking about it. If nobody ever loves me I'm cool with it.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@SW-User Sounds like you are self-confident. You don't need to be loved in return.
SW-User
@sree251 yeah it's great
sree251 · 41-45, M
@SW-User I guess you like being by yourself and living alone. Are you unlovable?
SW-User
@sree251 I don't think I'm unlovable, but it hasn't happened for me. I've also lost everyone close to me, so I have to be okay either way.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@SW-User Wow, lost everyone close to you? Sounds dire. I lost everyone close to me also by walking out on all of them. There was no animosity involved. I just up and left because it was too difficult to explain. No one would do this. I hope you didn't lose your loved ones through a misfortune like the Maui fire.
SW-User
@sree251 my parents passed away for health reasons, others killed and the rest I walked away from because they chose their disgusting secrets over helping me when I really needed them. I think it's okay to walk away. We don't have to be who they want us to be.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@SW-User No loss here. You don't need people who don't give a damn about you. It's hard to give up people who do. This is a heartless world. It's hard to be alone. I come here to find company, not love. I can never engage most people in conversation beyond cyberspace other than bartenders and folks who have to be nice because I am a customer. Here, I can enjoy talking to people who get mad with me.