Am I being petty?

I’m a grandmother of 3. They are 21( he’s a marine) 16 year old girl and 10 year old girl. The one that’s a marine used to be stuck to me like glue. Since he’s stationed in California, he never texts or calls me. The 16 year old is the same, barely no contact. Are there other grandparents out there that are going through the same thing with their grandchildren? My feelings are hurt.

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SW-User

I don’t agree with other people’s snide comments. Their intention is not to hurt you, they are simply becoming their own people. They will become more considerate and connected, it will likely ebb over the years, because they are finding their own way. I would be happy for them and not take it personally.

People insult their age, but yes, it is different times from when you were their age. That’s nothing to be bitter about like some are.

Maybe it’s time to think of yourself and try something new, or get back into something you maybe didn’t have time for because you were busy being there for your family 🖤

Mbingh01 · 61-69, F

@SW-User I have gotten into camping. I have a motorhome and try to travel as often as possible.

SW-User

@Mbingh01 awesome!