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Bf said he doesn’t leave his phone unlocked around me cause I snooped when he was cheating and now neither one of us trust each other.

I had caught my bf cheating on me cause I heard him talking to this girl on the phone in my house after he ex i himself to the bathroom thinking we couldn’t hear and he was talking quietly enough. I didn’t bring it to his attention I wanted proof first cause I couldn’t believe my ears. So I went thru his phone to see what I heard is true. My Bf said he doesn’t leave his phone unlocked around me anymore cause I snooped when he was cheating and now neither one of us trust each other. But if he has nothing to hide still would he care? I don’t trust him cause he doesn’t make me feel safe and secure in the relationship and he doesn’t trust me cause I went thru his phone. Are we both in the wrong?
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dale74 · M
No not that he doesn't trust you he doesn't want to be caught again
dale74 · M
Time to part ways or never mind if you like the cheating type a cheater will not change, lepards always keep their spots.
@dale74 No idea. Because they're heartless and think it's ok to treat people like objects, play with their feelings and get validation from the s*x they have with others?
I definitely don't fall into that category.
dale74 · M
@nothereforpeople i am single because i will not put up with cheating
@dale74 I hope you find a good person, and I hope I learn to love myself and be self-sufficient
SW-User
🤦🏾‍♂️ sooo why are you with him then? Once a cheater always a cheater
GeniUs · 56-60, M
@SW-User and the classic, "what gave me away?"
What, so you don't make the same mistake in future?
SW-User
@GeniUs i like your PP
GeniUs · 56-60, M
@SW-User I'm a 'grower' I promise 😃
Tiredish · 41-45, F
Why look at his phone? No trust, move on. Itll never get easier for you.
AlwaysAlexis · 56-60, F
No, he’s in the wrong. He’s gaslighting you. Please do yourself a favor and leave him. I know that’s easier said than done, but you deserve to be with someone who values and prioritizes you…and If your partner isn’t going to make you feel safe and secure, then who will?
easterniowegin · 51-55, M
None of it matters at this point.

Neither of you should ever invade privacy like that. If you don't trust him, why stay? Proof makesnzero difference except to keep your own mind clear.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Nope, my partner and I can go through each others phones whenever we want but we do both keep them locked because of you lose it you don't want people using it.
Definitely time to move on, find a better quality partner. Wishing you happiness!
It makes sense. Somegoing through your phone is a breach of privacy. If you don't trust him, dump him. You don't have any right to go through his phone without his permission.
Amylynne · 31-35, F
why would he tell you this
I thought you broke up months ago and became friends.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
If you're certain he cheated why on earth are you still there ?
dale74 · M
Let me put it in basic he doesn't care about you he cares only about putting his member in a tight hole and this also means he probably doesn't care if he imprgnates you or the other women he is poking. He doesn't care about spreading stds or other crap from one woman to another. Now if this upsets you then it is your decto keep him and tolerate his behavior or get a better man believe me there are a lot of single men out there who would never cheat.
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
He’s completely gaslighting you. Get out now.
SW-User
So he’s blaming you for his bad behaviour!!
Dump him!
NinaTina · 26-30, F
You found your proof now leave
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That's when it's time to kick him to the curb.

 
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