He hurt me so much. I told him how much he hurt me and how much he made me cry. I asked him if he cried and he wouldn’t answer me and just said I’m not answering that. Why wouldn’t he answer me that question?
in that moment, I bet he realized how much he hurt you, as far as admitting to crying, he does but won't admit it, partially because tough guys don't cry,
2ndly, on the whole, humanity doesn't care about male emotions/mental health, so we just shove it down and keep going, and never learn how to react when someone Does care about our mental state.