I just met a guy

He is nice and kindhearted BUT I didn’t know he was a dad, he never talked about his kids and that he was divorced… the thing is that he is older than me.
I just think that it’s hard to date someone in such situation, especially that his ex wife is there all the time. :3

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MaryQueenOfScots · 41-45, F

You are right 100%. No matter what you will always be second, kids first and the first wife will always be in your life forever. That is why it is hard for me to get involved with a lot of people. I will date a man with kids, but to get involved, never ever as if I can't be somebodys first, I will not settle for being second.