My boyfriend is breaking up with me and I don't know what to say

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“Is there anything that we can do to help the relationship?”

And if he says no, then tell him

“Thank you for the good time we had together … good luck in life”

sugarpie · 26-30, F

@Soossie I am afraid to hear him said no

SomeMichGuy · M

@sugarpie You can't be afraid of the truth, even if it is unpleasant. If he is over you, it won't help *you* to keep a dead relationship on life support.

You need to try to see reality and look for the kind of relationship which @Soossie had. Go for a GREAT relationship, an EPIC relationship, not some lesser thing.

You ARE worth it.

We ALL are.

sugarpie · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy he's messaging me now saying sorry. I don't know what to say again

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sugarpie · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy we don't fvck actually cause we live in a distance. But I'm telling asking him what he is doing

SomeMichGuy · M

@sugarpie You don't? Ok, you have a notion of a bf, not a bf, and he has a notion of a gf, not a gf.

LDRs are hard, because we need sex like air, water, food.

It isn't an optional accessory for most people. It's a necessity.

He's likely frustrated and trying to actually have sex other than with his hand or toy.

sugarpie · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy sex is never an issue. Our attitude is. We bare see each other face to face. Having a fight is really tough

SomeMichGuy · M

@sugarpie I don't see how sex can *not* be an issue, and I don't understand the third sentence, but it's really not my business.

I hope the *right* thing works out for both of you.