What's really going on in modern day relationships in the west?

I've heard, and seen, many videos about how our world is. It's not just that, the people I've talked to had these types of problems too.

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PhilDeep · 51-55, M

I don't really know. Do they still exist? I thought guys just wanna wank on their phones and if they get a real woman have her act-out their favourite porn videos or they're gone. And as a guy even if you don't do that, you're going to be rejected unless you can live up to ever rom-com cliche fantasy because that's what all men have to be like or they should move on. Seems like that, anyway.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@PhilDeep Unfortunately, this is one of many problems today. Unless a man is a top tier guy with a excellent business and have a nice car like a Benz, Lambo, or even a Rolls-Royce, he's nothing to these women. Not all women are like this, but can be a shit ton. Being normal won't get a guy anywhere, but a normal woman is good enough to do what she wants. But yeah, this lie that our society has we gotta live up to it, or we're all rejects.

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

@xSiFiGamer2016x I have as little as possible to do with people whose values are very different from my own and would prefer to be alone than trapped in a relationship in which I am always fighting myself to stay in.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@PhilDeep Simply put, being single might be a better choice than to be in a toxic one?

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

@xSiFiGamer2016x Not might, it absolutely is better for me.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@PhilDeep I see. I have that feeling, too. I would stick on the grind than to stick on finding a woman. I'll have her someday, but not today.