my boyfriend

so I meet my boyfriend a year ago. we are still new in our relationship we have so much to learn but the thing is, I think I relying on him too much. When I'm sad I find him, when I'm mad I vent at him, and when I'm happy he is the first person I tell about it. I think I'm a burden to him. he sometimes asks for one or two days alone and I said yes sure but sometimes I still disturb him cause I need someone by my side. He said it's fine but I don't think so it's fine, I think I drain his energy so much I felt so sorry, he had an important exam this year so I do understand that he needs to focus but I SILL NEED SOMEONE. I felt like I am a very selfish girlfriend and he deserves better. should I just stop our relationship so that he can get more time and then I can learn to be alone and after that, we can get back together?

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TexChik · F Best Comment

That doesnt change when you find and marry the love of your life. At your age you need to be careful to save that for "the one". communication about everything is the key to a healthy relationship. When a man is in love, he will endure anything to have you. Being smart though, you choose your battles. Men (especially young ones) need a little space to hang out with their friends, tell sex stories , and drink beer. Rekindle with your girl friends and enjoy them too, tell sexy stories, and have a margarita or something while giving him and your relationship room to breathe.

SW-User

your partner is there to listen to you and support you, but you do need balance and you might also need a therapist

xbandoleerx · 56-60, M

You must give him his space otherwise he will very soon get fed up of you & will start avoiding you.
Remember, too much breeze kills the fire

JustAmber · 36-40, F

There should be some balance but your supposed to depend on a significant other.

oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M

We all need space now and then nothing to worry about ,,,

AuRevoir · 36-40, M

Sounds like you just need a few regular friends...

SW-User

This is why I stay away from people. A lot of the time it makes me feel weaker to talk. And then I’m also unloading my shit on others and that feels horrible.

SarithBorn · 18-21, M

Or just give him some space, when he wants to come back he will. If he doesn't find someone else 🤔

TxOutlawTyler · M

No one still*NEEDS anyone.we Just don’t wanna die lonely

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