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No more relationship for me.

After my last relationship ended just before Christmas i did spend a lot of time pondering about my future. And come to the conclusion that i am better off alone :)
I am still in a very good friendship with my ex girlfriend, and we speak almost every day but now we are only friends, and it feels right for both of us.
Ontheroad · M
For me there is a difference in being okay alone and mentally or emotionally shutting oneself off from soem future possibility. I am 100% good being alone and realistically know at my age it will end that way... however, there is still that place in me, still that little light that would welcome having another good relationship.

To each his own, but that's how I look at it and maybe after a time, you will too. If not, being alone has advantages and as long as you don't suffer emotionally from begin alone, you'll have a great life.
Repete · 61-69, M
You are still young and a long way to go. It can be a lonely life if you shut out everything and everyone. I hope you have thought it all out.
I am not trying to talk you out of your decision,just pointing out the obvious.
I have chosen to be alone but I still like to meet others just not get close . I am happy this way but it’s really not for everyone.
Love can happen again ,unexpectedly if you keep an open mind.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
I can understand this very well.
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
Obviously your friendship is close and meant to be like it is. However, if the feelings get closer - why fight it? You've been there with her before and you both know why it ended - Always allow room for change to occur. Never say "Never."
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Cheers to that.

I’m quite content on my own too. No hard feelings, it’s just the best for some people.
WhiteLight · 46-50
@AlchemyFox Yes, sometimes one get to a point in life where one can say "enough is enough" and be fully content with it.
Curiosity13 · 51-55, M
You never know
WhiteLight · 46-50
@Curiosity13 Actually I do. There is nobody who can get close to how she was and still are toward me. To be honest i still love her 100% even she have moved on in relationship.
And i am ok with it. I don’t feel any jealousy.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
DDaverde · 56-60, M
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WhiteLight · 46-50
@Ferise1 No :) She was the one for me. When she moved on, I realized I do not wish to have a relationship with anyone else in the future.

To me it is not sad or wrong to stay alone.
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