Men of SW, would you let your friend date your sister?

My brother said that it’s against the bro code.

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

If I had a friend who wanted to try to do that, I'd warn him and make sure that he understood that I was a) doing so in good faith, and b) washing my hands of the whole mess.

Menetics · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy The reason my brother doesn’t want me dating his friend is that he doesn’t want the drama that comes with it. I don't want to ruin their friendship if we didn't work out too.

SomeMichGuy · M

@Menetics My sister is a mess and also currently swings a different way.

But I think *your* situation is likely common; esp. if you have a good relationship with a sibling, why *wouldn't* you like to choose from people he or she likes, etc.? Makes sense.

Your thoughtfulness about what might happen if things go sour is very wise; refreshing and delightful. I think you are better suited to navigate these dangerous waters than the typical person in a similar position. 😊