Men of SW, would you let your friend date your sister? My brother said that it’s against the...

Cubanheel15 · 56-60, M

Wouldn’t be best pleased

Burnley123 · 41-45, M

I know many people get annoyed with this but I don't get why.

'Let you,' implies ownership too. Like he is the sexual/moral guardian. If a guy dates his friend's sister and treats her badly, that is a major issue obviously. But this is not the question.

I became friends with my brother in law after he started dating my sister. By the same logic, this would not be allowed.

HootyTheNightOwl · 41-45

How about the "It's none of my brothers business who I date" code???

The only time my brother gets a say is when he is the third wheel in the relationship - which is never.

Rolexeo · 26-30, M

None of my business

SW-User

If he was a stand up guy that i knew would treat her right sure.

My logic is: she's going to date someone right? So might as well be someone I know very well to be a good person.

Torsten · 36-40, M

my sister is now single. She is a adult, I get no say in who she dates. if one of my mates ended up dating her, he better treat her right. thats all i will say on it

deadgerbil · 26-30, M

That would feel a little weird lol but who am I to stop two people from getting together if they really want it

popmol · 26-30, M

kinda against it but depends on the situation.

DragonFruit · 70-79, M

A long time friend of mine did date one of my sisters....and I don't have any problem with that.

cd4259 · 61-69, M

If I had a sister, why not, if they like each other and treat each other well, no problem

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

I dated a friend's sister. He didn't like it. I personally don't see the problem.

BiasForAction · M

Haha I like him for saying that

RadioDust · 41-45, M

I care too much for my friends mental health to allow him to date my sister

SomeMichGuy · M

If I had a friend who wanted to try to do that, I'd warn him and make sure that he understood that I was a) doing so in good faith, and b) washing my hands of the whole mess.

NerdyPotato ·

If they are my friend, then they must have a good personality, so I don't see why not. I also don't see why I'd have a say in it though.

Japrost · 41-45, M

Who cares

MrGoodbar · 51-55, M

its not against Bro code but your brother is probably worried about your friends being respectful and treating you right

dale74 · M

I had a friend and i never asked her out her bro was like you should have bad part was she was engaged to another guy by that time.

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

No “bro code” should get in the way of two peoples’ happiness.

Wol62 · 51-55, M

I didn't even know there was one, is that like the ho code?

TheotherAndy · 41-45, M

I think I would, but I’d be protective

ArtieKat · M

As far as I can remember, only one of my friends has ever shagged one of my sisters. I neither had any say in that, nor would I want to have done. In my opinion the only grounds for intervention would be if one party was an adult and the other was a child.

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

Well one of my friends married my sister

HannibalMontanimal · 31-35, M

Definitely not.

canusernamebemyusername · M

Yes since I dont have one.

pdockal · 56-60, M

When younger no
Now yes

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Daveuk · 56-60, M

Yes I would

Serendipitymaybe · 51-55, M

No

daddywashere

If my friend was a person that treats women well and is likely to be good for my sister I'm all for it. I'd rather she date someone I know will treat her well. As she deserves. I'm okay with my friend focusing on my sister and having less time to hang with me.

SW-User

I wouldn't punish my friend in that way 🤔

th3r0n · 41-45, M

If it was one I knew for sure would never do her dirty I would have been glad for it

Going down bad if he did her dirty though

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

No.. my friends are dogs & they're not allowed 😂

caccoon · 36-40

I don't have a sister but I'd be happy to let a friend of mine date my brother. I have good taste in friends, just not in partners

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

I notice that people who dont say no on here are majority well known perverts

Pretzel · 70-79, M

not knowing what a perv he is

and of course my sister will be a virgin even after her 3rd kid

it's the way of man

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

No way

chrisCA · M

Anything associated with the word "bro" is stupid to begin with.

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empanadas · 31-35, M

Depends on how I see my friend. If he's a good dude, then I don't mind. However there's a bro code. If my friend dates my sister without asking how I feel about it first... that's breaking the code