Do men value women they pay for?

I decided to go 50/50 on a date with a guy who asked me out. Most girls at my school thought I was crazy for doing this but I did. He stood me up and never came. He started flirting with another girl two weeks later. - I felt cheap and worthless. I wasn't a gold digger and guys still treated me like shit. - I have countless stories like these. When I'm paying him or I expect little to nothing from the guy I'm treated like shit and disrespected. When the guys buy me something or pays for the date I'm treated better than when I split or he gives me nothing. For years men talked about gold diggers and how they're these horrible people and first dates should be 50/50 but every time I follow this logic It's like I'm disposable. Why is this?

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eMortal · M

Now you know how it feels to pay for a date and still be ignored or treated like shit. Imagine how it would have felt if you had payed for him too!
Same rules applies, spending money on a date does not guarantee a favorable outcome. It’s up to if you wanna keep going down that road.
My rule on dating/paying is, if I asked you out, I pay for everything because I invited you. If you ask me out, I’ll still pay at least 50% unless you really really insist on covering the whole thing.