Not very common but possible. Although the feeling is never equally divided , like you said. In doubt stay with the second person like Johnny once said.
I remember having intense feelings for this one girl during hs, but like a month later this other girl asked me out and my feelings shifted to her and I wasn't thinking about the other girl. I don't think you can genuinely feel that way for more than one person at a time.
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I can only romantically love one person at a time. I love my friends (girls and guys) but it’s very different, it’s a I care about their wellbeing type love.
@eMortal Perhaps. That’s never really been an issue for me. I think sometimes you meet someone who knocks your world off kilter when you least expect it.