When I hear people complain about marriage…

And I don’t mean like complaining about abuse that’s totally valid… but like the “my husband wants me to go out and I want to stay in “. And like seriously- some of us women are getting date raped trying to find someone who will marry us . We’d give anything to have to dress up on a night that we’d rather be in our pajamas . It’s like the people complaining they’re bored with their dinner choices forgetting that some people are starving .

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V00doo

As a married woman about to celebrate my ith anniversary, I wholeheartedly apologise for whoever made you believe marriage was perfect.

antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F

@V00doo But are you alone?

V00doo

@antisocialbutterfly Is that the issue?

antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F

@V00doo yes! I’m alone . Completely . Gonna spend the holidays alone . Because my parents decided my siblings can just spend it with their partners and I can spend it home alone with my cat

V00doo

@antisocialbutterfly Ah, so the whole marriage thing isnt the issue, but your parentz.

antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F

@V00doo it is clearly an issue . I mean seriously they think they’re better

V00doo

@antisocialbutterfly Have you suggested to them going to one of your siblings?

antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F

@V00doo we can’t . Siblings are going to their partners families house . I honestly think since my parents are still paying all of my siblings bills that maybe my parents insist that they spend the holidays with their birth family

V00doo

@antisocialbutterfly ah