So, out of a sudden, I'm feeling so extremely guilty about being horny (although of course this is something I have no control over)

I come from a house in which sex is very taboo, and it's something to be ashamed of, and something you should only do and think of when you're married. I don't want to get married and I used to be so chill thinking about sex out of wedlock, but now just the fact of being horny is filling me with so much guilt I can't think of anything else

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WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

I have felt a similar way as you, the simple act of wanting to have pleasure being so taboo, so i started to just masturbate all the time, i allowed the feelings of horniness to control when and where i would do so, on planes in restaurants every day in school i allowed myself to become comfortable with the feelings my body was giving me, then i allowed myself to desire another person or the idea of another person

nothereforpeople · F

@WolfGirlwh0r3 I used to masturbate and sex chat and really enjoy feeling desired.... but now it's all gone and I feel all tied up. I tried masturbating anyway, but it kinda felt like I was r a p i n g myself and I was absolutely disgusted

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

@nothereforpeople Okay may i suggest you try to be playful with yourself then, talk to others rp and dont masturbate and see if you can awaken that part again?

nothereforpeople · F

@WolfGirlwh0r3 I'll take that suggestion. I'll try. Thanks

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

@nothereforpeople as i can see this, your issue with pleasure is that something got into your mind that its bad, I mean growing up in general you are taught that sex before marriage is wrong, but that was taught by people who were far more prudish than current generations, by people who thought only men and women should have marriage and that there were only two options of gender you could be. Dont let thier puritanical morality affect your mind, try to find a new way to define pleasure...