Cheater thinks he’s smart

My bf changed his phone passcode cause he’s cheating on me on social media. He doesn’t know I know. He also may have changed the passcode cause I checked his phone but I checked cause he’s cheating on me. I know two wrongs don’t make a right but he’s cheated in the past and this was his second chance and I had to check to make sure I had my facts right, which I did. If he mentions to me about knowing I went thru his phone, even tho he has no proof, what should I say? Should I tell him I know he’s cheating and I’m out?

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Quimliqer · 70-79, M

If your sure of what he’s doing, own the moment and tell him he’s gone, and why!!

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Quimliqer what if he starts calling me insecure for checking his phone and all that bs how can I respond. It’s not that I’m insecure it’s just that I don’t value disloyalty in a relationship

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@Fifidog There’s no insecurity on your part, just hurt! He’s done it before and you being cautious is just natural!

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Quimliqer your right that’s very true!! Thanks for bringing up that point

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Quimliqer he’s cheating right? Cause I have a feeling it is but I wanna double make sure from outside opinions. do you consider it cheating when you know what your doing is wrong cause your in a relationship asking this person on social media when they come to your state to visit sometime they wanna take you on a date cause they think your attractive. Meanwhile your doing everything you can to hide it from your current partner?