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RIPKAW · 31-35, M
I haven't done anything sexual in over 7 years. I've only been sexually attracted to those I fell in love with. It's not important to me, but I know that someone could spark me
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RIPKAW · 31-35, M
@HellsBelle can you please clarify what you mean? I'm confused
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
@RIPKAW you said you know someone who can spark you...I assumed it was an actual real person...so I suggested you tell them your feelings. but IF you have told them already in the past year, then don't tell them again.
RIPKAW · 31-35, M
@HellsBelle I told her my feelings every day. She left me a few weeks ago out of nowhere with no explanation.
SW-User
For me, there has to be an emotional connection for there to be a sexual one. Sex for the sake of sex with any random people is not my thing. I'm not asexual but I am very selective.
sunnudenow · 70-79, M
@SW-User Do it your way - and enjoy!
BiasForAction · M
There are many who feel this way. It is strange to me that I seldom feel in the mood anymore. probably a mixture of factors involved.
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
@BiasForAction what factors, do you think?
BiasForAction · M
@HellsBelle Let's just say a mixture of physical, mental, and emotional factors.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Very very very few can spark me.
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
@SW-User 🙄 I've had the best and the worst. I don't need a reset. I need intimacy that transcends s*x. S*x is my LAST priority,
SW-User
@HellsBelle I was talking to Brown Boy. I guess we know now how people end up here talking about right-wing conspiracies all day.
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
@SW-User It is so bizarre to me when people strike up a conversation with someone in the comments, and not the poster. PM him
InHeaven · F
Someone can spark. Nothing is permanent
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
@InHeaven I won't know if that is true until my last day
InHeaven · F
@HellsBelle I ve been through this TOO many times, thinking that's it!!! Its a phase or a state of the soul but it's not permanent but it sure seems to be at the time
SailorMarz · F
I can be sexually active with someone without needing to know them fully. As long as they're very attractive to me lol, but I'll get bored with them if it's just about sex. Attractive or not, getting to know you and how you work, makes things a lot more interesting and hotter
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
I feel like Im not "sparked" in a sexual way. Im more stimulated intellectually. Like I do have a type. I like women who are usually described as "cute" or "mysterious", but women who are described as "sexy" or "hot" not so much.
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
I only feel when I fall in love with someone. Who I can be with. For me emotional bonding is priority then sex.
sunnudenow · 70-79, M
Wish for you great success in one of life's most difficult endeavors.
SW-User
That's a damn good question.
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
@SW-User are you one way or the other?
SW-User
@HellsBelle I go back and forth so I lean towards someone being able to spark it.
Whodunnit · M
I'm more no-sexual 😒
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NeoNeo · 46-50, M
8 years
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ihurtmychin · 26-30, M
@HellsBelle [media=https://youtu.be/83FKo_Xj-Ks]
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
@ihurtmychin it says video unavailable for me
ihurtmychin · 26-30, M
@HellsBelle well !