I got described as ‘totally tragic’

By an ex girlf. It feels so harsh
I can’t believe that’s what people think of me.

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Mindful · 56-60, F

who you become over time… matters…no one is… ever “done” Live life, and when something doesn’t go the way you hoped ask yourself “why? “ and then try doing something different until you are content. Read books that inspire you.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thankyou, it just feels really harsh right now as everyone is talking about it @Mindful

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Strongtea everyone? Who is everyone?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Like everyone from school/college etc. I live in quite a small town so everyone kinda knows everyone@Mindful

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Strongtea it’s painful for ANY one to hear negative description of oneself. I’m not sure why people do that except they hope to inspire you to become a better version of oneself. Sometime, when it comes to relationships, one person feels hurt and so they do what they can to hurt the other person back. In a way being described as tragic… is not specific enough. So, I’m not sure that has any merit. You would have to have a private conversation with her to find out what that means. Also, don’t fully trust the person who told you. Unless they were trying to help you get over your ex gf.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thankyou so much, that means a lot.@Mindful