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All those and more 🧡

Climbing mountains ? ✅
Swimming with whale sharks? ✅
Jumping off (low) cliffs? ✅
Exploring caves? ✅

I have done them. And more.

But the biggest risk I have done and have continued to do is to leave a piece of me behind 🧡 and allow a piece of others in my life.

I have no regrets at all.




Montanaman · M Best Comment
I've jumped and dove off 50 foot cliffs.
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I've been in caves and explored, (the smoke just floated 😉🤪😎)
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I've been to mountain tops.
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I've rode horses bareback
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I've I've touched face of God.
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I've caught dangerous critters.
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And when I was young, I used to ride on the backs of Whales and Dolphins.
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Montanaman · M
@Vivaci Gosh.🤭🤗☺️Thank you. ❤️
@Montanaman You’ve such a multifaceted personality…😊🤗 You’re welcome.
Montanaman · M
@Vivaci Hugs 🤗🤗☺️❤️

Ontheroad · M
This made me think. And in thinking of the meaning of this writing by Shawna, I reflected upon the times in my life when in some unfamiliar (to me) place in this world I most unexpectedly and accidently ran into a moment and a person that forever changed me, that forever made me a better person. The moments maybe different than what you intended Cookie, but then again, moments of kindred spirit.

Once, in a land I was other than from books and hearsay very unfamiliar with, I was wandering the streets exploring the city I was in, and in the middle of the day, quite parched from the heat, stopped at a local vendor's roadside cart to purchase a drink. This was in a so called 3rd world country, the vendor obviously working hard to survive and I an admittedly ignorant American, found ourselves face-to-face. I used my hands to point out what I wanted because I had no knowledge of the language and she, having no knowledge of my language, began a pantomime in which we quickly arrived at an impasse. The impasse began when I tried to pay for the drink and offered up a small (to me) denomination bill to pay for the drink. My payment was met with a look of surprise, then wild hand signals and what I could tell (or thought at the moment) was a frustrated or maybe angry responses in her native tongue. I was a bit taken aback by her response, and honestly ready to just throw up my hands and walk away when I heard from behind me ""may I help" in near, albeit heavily accented English.

Trying to keep this as short as possible, it was a woman just a couple of years older than I who was offering to help translate and resolve the impasse. I gratefully and happily accepted her help and as it turned out, the small denomination bill I offered in payment was in reality many times over the cost of the drink... like a few weeks profit more than the cost of that drink, and the vendor had insufficient change to complete the transaction. The drink's price was pennies and the bill I offered was equal to a hundred dollar bill being offered for the drink. So there we were, a vendor who needed every single sale just to be able to eat and an idiot American offering to purchase it with a a bill the vendor couldn't possibly handle. Both unable to speak the others language and both misinterpreting the others responses.

The lady quickly did the translating, had us all three smiling and laughing at the situation, but with me still thirsty and unable to pay for the drink and the vendor having to pass up a sale she needed to make. Our interpreter settled it by paying for the drink. Such a simple but giving gesture and one which resulted in our long, deep and dare I say, loving friendship. A couple of years later I left the country, leaving behind a piece of me, but taking with me a new and more valuable me... all pieces of the lady and her country. Priceless.

Priceless and not an isolated moment in my life. Opening oneself to such moments changes you.
Ontheroad · M
@CookieCrumbs These moments, if we choose to take the risk and let them in, do change us, do make us who we later become. I read your posts and your experience happened because of who you are, because of how you risk yourself. You always make me and my heart smile.
Ontheroad · M
@Montanaman thank you. I'd bet anything this or something similar may have and could have happened to you. It's pretty obvious you are a man's man, which to me is a man who has few fears he has not at least tested, and has heart.
@Ontheroad
Thank you. And I hope you know how much I appreciate your willingness to share your time writing your experiences for us.

Again, this is a form of life interaction. You put yourself out here for people to know you and in doing so, you get to discover them too. You leave a piece of yourself to those you touch.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
No regrets here. I have given large pieces of myself, mostly to deserving folks. Even the undeserving taught me a lesson. I am content and without regret.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@TexChik Aww i love you, my friend.
TexChik · F
@Fungirlmmm ILU2 🥰🤗
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Freeranger · M
On one of my tours in to the jungle while in the P.I. during my time in the military....several of us hired a tour guide, and we hopped in these dugouts manned by local guides and we set off up this river.
I guess you could say it was sorta uphill. You could see where locals had taken the time to wade in to the river and toss many of the larger rocks out of the way, creating this channel during the initial ascent and in our dugout, our bow and stern men would leap out as needed and guide us to the left or right of large boulders. I'm unsure of the gradient, but during the initial start, there was more of this, and walking the dugout up than paddling.....
And then, we got to this point where, the gradient relaxed. The river became like glass, and the water was deeper. The sides of the ravines closed in around us and, you had to crane your neck to look up. It's been so long, the memory fades but....I distinctly remember these small individual little waterfalls and trellises(sp?) of flowers and vines that reached to the river, it was like a page out of a fantasy island and, it was quiet and idyllic. Our guides paddles on and after a couple of hours, we sort of dead ended at this place that was pretty breathtaking. We approached this small beachhead, and climbed out to enjoy this large waterfall, with a big pool in front of it. In behind was a cave, and while I resisted going to explore it, I wish I had.
But I had to laugh......talk about the enterprise of mankind, there off to the right along a part of the beach, some young guys were manning a small hut, selling soft drinks out of chests.

The cool part about leaving something of myself behind was in signing my name and where I was from, in this ancient log book one of them kept and, I can only wonder who first instigated it, but it was old.....and as I recall, it went back decades and I think, to the end of WWII and what I would assume would have been occupying American troops.

Until your post Crumbs, this thought was something I had not reflected on since.........well, into forever. I don't even think I realize I had left something behind.....at least until now. Don't ask me for a province or a locale.....I could not tell you. I worked out of Subic Bay for about 7-9 months and I was in, around, and working out of there for months. My only concern in touring was the Huks, but the countryside? Unreal. Head on a swivel.....😏
@Freeranger
It’s nice to have a glimpse of the experiences you had in your past life .

Sometimes, we find ourselves recalling , if not reminiscing and being sentimental about the past. It’s good to remember them to realize how far you have come.
Freeranger · M
@CookieCrumbs I could only replay it, it was never for me about a yard stick. My mind at that point never measured any of that. It was totally about being in the moment, and seeing things I'd never seen as a farm kid in the extreme Northeast....and would probably never see again.
I've never measured my life along an incline rather, the line of a railroad track that, at some point, converges with the other rail. When I reach that point where the two weld, I suspect my time is at a end.
Until then......well......the last stanza of Robert Frost's The Road Not Taken
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Swimming with whale sharks? So cool!

A few years ago I binged-watched the show The Aquarium, which was set at the Georgia Aquarium in Atlanta.

They have HUGE tank with a whale shark.

I want to go there!
@JoyfulSilence
You should!!! Try it!
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@CookieCrumbs

Oh, I do not think I want to swim in the ocean.

But a comfy aquarium would be fine.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I`m married. That`s enough risk for me. 🤭
🤣 It’s okay…We can feel ya! @Degbeme
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Vivaci I wish .......... *cough*........ I mean, thank you. 🤭
@Degbeme
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I have no regrets either. Even when i lose a piece of myself.


Nice! Done all but swim with any kind of shark..no thank lol
@Bexsy
Do you think you’ll ever find that piece again?
@CookieCrumbs I wish I knew. At this moment I don't believe so
Slade · 56-60, M
@Bexsy

Even when i lose a piece of myself.

As long as it's not like Bobbitt!
Wow!!! You never fail to amaze me, Cookie…🤩
@Vivaci
The best experiences in all my life’s adventures involve meeting interesting people who have enriched my life in many ways.
@CookieCrumbs That’s how life needs to be lived to the fullest! 😇🤗💕
@Vivaci
The only way that makes it meaningful. 🧡
Montanaman · M
Smiles 😃 😊 and Hugs🤗🤗
Thank you for Best Comment. 🥰
@Montanaman
My pleasure. Thank you for sharing you pics. 🤗
Oh, I like this, Adventure Girl.
@CookieCrumbs Only after we reach the top!
@Ghostinthemachine
You mean after I carried you on my back.
@CookieCrumbs well I am bringing the sushi and cheesecake!
again...this is all negotiable
Riverman2 · 56-60, M
That's some adventurous life to have. Me too. However, I think the " pieces of myself " are snagged on briars, thorn trees, and rocks lol. 🙃
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Putting one’s heart at risk can be a exciting and scary adventure
@GJOFJ3
When was the last time you put your heart at risk?
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@CookieCrumbs It has been a while. I choose safety over excitement
@GJOFJ3
I can understand that. 🤗
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Yes people find being vulnerable a big risk.
@JimboSaturn
It is.

When you care about another human being, you risk getting hurt when they hurt you, or if you lose them.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Wonderful!!
@Quimliqer
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