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Have you ever had to deal with an ex that wanted to remain friends with you, but you can't handle that?

Did you tell them no or did you suffer through?
LadyGrace · 70-79
Just the fact that you think you have to suffer through tells you that that is going against your natural Healthy instincts. You need to end it and lose all contact.
Fairydust · F
Yeah my ex wanted to take me to New York for my birthday lol 😂 said I owed it to him!!

I owe him nothing lol I’ve told him we won’t be ever be best buddies.
He’s so controlling, I’m just glad I’m out of his web.
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Tell them no, if that’s what you want. You owe them nothing
@Ghostinthemachine It's hard because I do feel guilty even though I shouldn't given the circumstances
@SlippingAway guilt can be an annoying emotion. Preventing one from doing what they really ought to
Best of luck moving forward
AdaXI · 41-45, T
Nah thankfully for me it always happen quite naturally, that it ended and we both just moved on.
乂ᴼ◡ᴼ乂
My recent ex, we only just grew apart so we maintained a friendship until she decided to not be my friend anymore because I refuse to take any more vaccines. So if she was giving me that ultimatum she wasn’t really my friend to begin with and the love she had for me while we were in a relationship was fake as fuck. And fake was what I called her.
SW-User
Unless you have kids with an Ex .
It's a bad idea to stay friends...I've learned it's best to cut all ties with them and move on with life
@SW-User yes that's the healthiest option
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I haven't remained friends let alone have any contact again other than their hoover attempts a few weeks/months later.
i dont mind being casual friends with an ex, not BFF type friends, though. i aint got time for that.
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LadyJ · F
No all my exes knew to stay away from me
@LadyJ put down the axe lady !
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Suffer through 😂😂😂
i dont think id do that
SW-User
Tel em to piss off
I suffered until he cut ties because I was scared
@V00doo I am too nice, and I am suffering through it now but I know it's not healthy for me
Azlotto · M
I had to deal with my ex-wife one time. She soon realized that I never want to be friends with her.
SW-User
No, I've never had anything to do with any of them
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