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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
A proper proper date?
Well I was in a LDR for most of my adult life that recently ended so…
When I was in high school at 17👀
So 7 years
Huh
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard Wow. We gotta get you back in the game! What are you looking for?
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sarabee1995 Uhhhhhhhh
I don’t think I really have a type
I’ve always been more attracted to shy introverted types(which is a problem cause neither of us will ever make the first move😅)
I would like something more serious at this point, just someone to spend every day with whether we’re doing something or just enjoying each other’s company
Someone who I can do silly things with
Someone with a terrible enough sense of humor to find the things I say even vaguely funny😂
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard Lol, Sounds like most of my past relationships except that they weren't too shy to ask me out!! 🤣

So is there anyone around that you think would be a good prospect??
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sarabee1995 Not sure
I only ever go out with my 2 male friends
So the only women I see are my coworkers and my patients 😅
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard Well let's leave the patients out of this for now. I see that going badly.

Coworkers can be a tricky situation as well because work is supposed to be a safe place.

Do you go out to bars or clubs with your friends?
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sarabee1995 Unfortunately no
I don’t drink and none of us are club people
We go to the movies and to parks usually or one of their houses if it’s a party for him or his kid
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard Okay, very cool. Drinking is way overrated. Parks are awesome.

I assume that when you go to parks that there are other people there, right? I'm not asking you to be a jerk and start hitting on everyone with ovaries, but you should be friendly and courteous. Can you be that?
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sarabee1995 I always do that but I have a very shy and nervous energy being given off
Cause crowds make me shy and nervous 😅
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard I hate crowds. I once freaked out on the way to a concert (my first ever). I made the people I was with pull over and drop me off while I called my bro to come pick me up. I get it. Been there.

But parks aren't usually crowded. Go to a nice laid back park, kinda mellow, not empty but not crowded. And be polite and engaging. :)
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sarabee1995 I’ve left many events for that same reason
It’s super crowded here😬

I may just go to parks or the beach on my own but I find myself more awkward if I don’t have people to bounce off😅
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard Oh yeah ... being on your own makes it harder to reach out. I spend a ton of time on my own, but I'm not trying to connect with new people then. You need a wingman for that.

Can I message you? Its completely unrelated to this.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@sarabee1995 Of course friend you can always message me🤗