On line break ups
Why do on line break up’s devastate me more then an in person relationship. Why does my heart break so much :(
51-55, F
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
solitaire · 41-45, F
Because we don't get the closure we need. I feel for you 🤗. SEVERAL emails and messages that I sent - no response. That was the price I paid for accepting an online friend after he disappeared for 2 years. Last year he said he "loved me". And I was trauma bonded to him. The pain was so intense in Oct and November of 2021. Phew - I can't tell you. He love-bombed me and once he had me hooked: that's when his words and actions stopped lining up.
It's better to meet someone in real life. Words come cheap. Look for the persons actions. If this guy had loved me as he claimed to he would have met me by now. It's pathetic that in one of my last WhatsApp messages to him I was literally begging him to call me. How desperate is that? You don't beg someone who claims to love you to call you.
Hugs to you. I could do with a hug myself
It's better to meet someone in real life. Words come cheap. Look for the persons actions. If this guy had loved me as he claimed to he would have met me by now. It's pathetic that in one of my last WhatsApp messages to him I was literally begging him to call me. How desperate is that? You don't beg someone who claims to love you to call you.
Hugs to you. I could do with a hug myself