In your 30s, would you prefer a partner who makes you feel happy or who makes you feel fully supported?

Either a partner who does everything to make you feel loved and happy, or someone who rather works hard first to one day support you financially and in parenthood?

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SW-User

The first one. I'm kind of tired of feeling lonely in relationships with people who "work hard for the future". What about the present? There should be balance.

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scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

@SW-User now what do they love about each other if she for example left that one guy in September last year, only 7 months after meeting him?

SW-User

@scooogy People are allowed to make mistakes. Maybe she thought he could make her happy and he didn't. Maybe she didn't make him happy either.

scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

@SW-User Is her still trusting me with things during 4 years of knowing me that she still believes I could make her happy?

SW-User

The answer is so far apart? Some who support you are the ones who actually take the time to see what makes you happy.

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SW-User

@scooogy You asked a question. I appreciate you felt you did, what's her opinion? We are already very far off your question

scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

@SW-User She never said anything

SW-User

@scooogy The old adage, communication is key to love appears here?

Kim09 · 46-50, M

I need a woman that will make feel happy and can support me when I don't have

Berti33 · 36-40, F

@Kim09 you said it right.. expressed it well..

HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F

One who makes me feel happy.

Sutten · 36-40, F

Feel loved and happy

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

Happy and loved. If he works hard he works for himself first and foremost. There's no guarantee that things as they are today will be the same in 5-10 years. Besides, one can work hard and still make the other feel loved and happy.

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SW-User

The former. Although I don't really need either.

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