The next time I isten to someone complain about us and be all like "Ewww" if a guy couldn't cook
I'm just mentally reframing at this point like what 20 percent of the male population would know a whole lot about cooking and if a man in that boat were actually into the girl complaining that guy asked to borrow 20 and women do most of the cooking for him then logically speaking if a man who was able to were interested in her we wouldn't be hearing about it and there's a reason she ended up dating a toad in the first place.
the mere act of complaining about it is revelatory. the men you actually want don't want you so you ended up in this boat.