What would you do if your girlfriend did this?

Let's say you have a 9 year old son and your girlfriend has 7 year old twins. Your girlfriend took her twins out to eat but refused to buy anything for your son because he's not her child/ her responsibility.

(Your son wasn't aware they had food)

What would you do, men?

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TexChik · F

There is never an excuse for mistreating a child. I cant imagine someone being that horrible.

LadyJ · F

She needs to be shown the door..thats awful behaviour..i would never buy one child without the other

SW-User

I would ask for an explanation. But i think very few reasons can make up for that shiz, and i'd be out of there real fast, the end of that relationship.

CP4Life · 51-55, M

Any relationship you have with someone who has children is a package deal, i would suggest this relationship is dead in the water, move on.

SooperSarah

Regardless of genders that relationship is doomed if someone is that petty and selfish.

Fluffybull · F

Dump her. That's rude and nasty behaviour.

Midlifemale · 61-69, M

Break up with the girlfriend.
There couldn't be any love in that relationship if she doesn't include his son in their meal times.
...I assumed the son was with them at the restaurant or wherever...

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Thetinydog · 26-30, F

@Thetinydog but I don't know I'd personally feel awful if I had a boyfriend and I let his kid go hungry when I had money

Midlifemale · 61-69, M

@Thetinydog I just think if you're dating a person, the children should be included. If they care for each other, they shoukd care for the children also. I mean, dating usually means marriage eventually and if he or she doesn't care for your kids, why date them ???

Thetinydog · 26-30, F

@Midlifemale I know but so many people said it's selfish for the women to expect him to buy her kids food. She would Probably buy his kids food too. I swear why does the black community want black women to just lay down and take abuse

TheMountainMan · 26-30, M

If she took her children and my son out to eat but didn't feed my son, she's fucking gone with a good chewing out to go with her. I mean what the fuck? Who thinks like that?! My child and I are a package deal. Treat him decently or we're fighting, possibly physically.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

Nope. Nope, nope nope, I'd be out ✌️

LandOfOz · 61-69, M

Can we have the whole story. Was the sons father there. How come the son wasnt aware they had food. If hes 9yrs old.

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MarieUK · 36-40, F

the next time I went out with Him (if I ever did again) I'd give my child some money, tell her to go buy ice creams for her his kids and me, if he asks where is mine she's to say "Well I wasn't there when you bought last time for your kids so your not here this time when I am buying"

Rilyn · 31-35, F

Nah. Boot her out. The end.

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

She would have never been a girlfriend if this was even a possibility.
But if she did somehow run the gauntlet without her views being on this being seen she would be less than a memory.

Justafantasy · M

So, was the son even out with them?

When I take 1 kid and not the other the one that isn't there doesn't get fed and isn't involved in whatever we are doing.