What would you do if your girlfriend did this?

There is never an excuse for mistreating a child. I cant imagine someone being that horrible.

She needs to be shown the door..thats awful behaviour..i would never buy one child without the other

I would ask for an explanation. But i think very few reasons can make up for that shiz, and i'd be out of there real fast, the end of that relationship.

Break up with the girlfriend.
There couldn't be any love in that relationship if she doesn't include his son in their meal times.
...I assumed the son was with them at the restaurant or wherever...

Any relationship you have with someone who has children is a package deal, i would suggest this relationship is dead in the water, move on.

Nope. Nope, nope nope, I'd be out ✌️

Regardless of genders that relationship is doomed if someone is that petty and selfish.

Can we have the whole story. Was the sons father there. How come the son wasnt aware they had food. If hes 9yrs old.

the next time I went out with Him (if I ever did again) I'd give my child some money, tell her to go buy ice creams for her his kids and me, if he asks where is mine she's to say "Well I wasn't there when you bought last time for your kids so your not here this time when I am buying"

So, was the son even out with them?

When I take 1 kid and not the other the one that isn't there doesn't get fed and isn't involved in whatever we are doing.

She would have never been a girlfriend if this was even a possibility.
But if she did somehow run the gauntlet without her views being on this being seen she would be less than a memory.

She would be gone. If she cared about me, she would care about the son too. Clearly doesn't

Dump her. That's rude and nasty behaviour.

Wish her well and find someone else

Id buy something for my son to eat

Done, over.

I’d leave.

Pull out from now on

thats shocking and i wouldnt want her in our lives

Nah. Boot her out. The end.

That's so awful

Sit her down for an IQ test

If she took her children and my son out to eat but didn't feed my son, she's fucking gone with a good chewing out to go with her. I mean what the fuck? Who thinks like that?! My child and I are a package deal. Treat him decently or we're fighting, possibly physically.

Dump her and never look back!! Forget that!!

Living together?
That sucks

I would be getting g rid of this person. Treat my children that way and it’s over.