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Are a lot of men like this? Or just the old school sexist kind.

This pervert at my job last week out of nowhere just went on a rant about relationships and he said the man is supposed to be the protector and provider the woman is supposed to be the nurturer, and it seems like without saying it he means women are only supposed to be housewives and that we take independence too far.

I didn't say anything but I disagreed, I have never been nurtured and I am not a nurturing woman. It's not my job to baby or pacify grown ass people or to be their rehabilitation center. The "feminine" roles people bitch about now about toxic masculinity is something every should do.

Everyone should know how to cook and clean. Then tried to sell myself to women with monetary value by keep saying "if you take care of me I will take care of you. If you take care of me I'll let you handle the check book and the money." And he wonders why he's still single... And on another not people should stop looking for mothers in their partners or friend groups, that's disgusting, and people need to really get over their mom fetish. I want to beat the f**k out of man because he called me "momma" I'm not your damn mama.
Montanaman · M
There are a few dinosaurs left out there..

Or maybe I should say cavemen. 😞🤗🤗
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
I think you're reading too far into this. if somebody broke into your house in the middle of the night and your boyfriend stayed in bed and told you to go check it out how would you feel?
Chickie · F
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
@Chickie I mean technically hes just fighting for equality lol
Chickie · F
@TheRascallyOne I was wondering if I misunderstood it.
Pfuzylogic · M
A lot of that was socially addressed in the 60s. I remember the final fight of my parents where she busted her huge spice rack on the kitchen floor.
She was not going to cook! 😷
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
In a perfect world, all of those paths cross--you protect, and provide for, each other. But the division of power is different in every relationship, and there's no "best" one, except the one that works for both parties.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Chickie Yeah, those are outdated, in my opinion.
Chickie · F
@uncalled4 I was thinking the same as well, but where I live everyone here has an outdated mindset
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Chickie On paper I am almost, but not quite, a feminist. So to me, there's always room to veer away from tradition.

 
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