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Please help me, give me strength…

I am in a long distance abusive (emotionally, physically, even sexually and all around CRAP relationship. I have a flight tomorrow and I really dont want to go anymore. I could have an amazing life if I leave him. What should I do?
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Is this a trick question? What good could come from being in the physical presence of your abuser?

Dump him, block his number and move on with your life.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
If it's long distance and it's abusive then it's easy to cut the cord. Gtfo is my strong opinion. Life's too short for shitmunchers
You already know the answer.

The only hard part of this is to realize you don't deserve this. Once you recognize a parasite doesn't care in the least about you, that it will sicken, hurt and eventually kill you because a parasite is a parasite, you're ready to throw it out of your life.

It takes a little while to get used to evicting the parasite.

Can I live without my parasite?

Absolutely.

How will I live without my parasite?

Brilliantly, successfully, wonderfully.
JesseInTX · 51-55, M
I think you answered your own question
block him and move on
Indianboy · M
Dear friend, if you are abused, end relationship right way. No point continuing relationship with such toxic person..
Freetime · 56-60, M
It doesn't sound like there is anything good about this person. Why would you continue the relationship?
deadgerbil · 26-30
I was in one before. Just leave it. Life is so much better without toxic people like that
in10RjFox · M
You are hooked to a control freak and a hard core narcissist. So like a drug addict you will lead your body to him to be abused and I'll treated.

So you need a similar rehabilitation like that of drugs to get rid of him.

Surrender to someone who you trust to take control of you. Be away from phones and internet completely and let your gaurdian handle his communication attempts.
Elessar · 26-30, M
Leave that piece of cr*p and don't look back
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Are you scared to leave him of what he might do to you if you do ?
leahmartinxo24 · 26-30, F
@JohnOinger No. The only excuse I can think of is insecurity within myself and the fact I have bpd which makes it harder to end relationships.
You already know the solution.Leave him and lead an amazing life .
SW-User
What's stopping you from leaving him?
You know the answer, leave it
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Have an amazing life. 🤷‍♀️
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