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Seven years ago I got a random message from a woman who had seen something I posted and we started chatting. It wasn't long before we realized our thought processes were amazingly similar, as if she was a long lost twin or maybe lovers from a previous lifetime.
We became extremely comfortable telling each other the craziest things. Often we realized we already knew things about each other without being told. Weird habits, odd turn ons. Pics of things most people wouldn't be comfortable with, "today I was_________ and I thought you might want to see". And there was "wait, I don't remember telling you I liked that" followed by "well yeah, but I figured you would".
Her life started on a downhill spiral about a year after we first crossed paths. It would appear to improve slightly and then something else would go wrong. I lost track of her a little over a year ago but I keep hoping she will show back up in my inbox. As near as I can tell she's still alive out there somewhere but I can't work out why I can't find a trace of her.
We became extremely comfortable telling each other the craziest things. Often we realized we already knew things about each other without being told. Weird habits, odd turn ons. Pics of things most people wouldn't be comfortable with, "today I was_________ and I thought you might want to see". And there was "wait, I don't remember telling you I liked that" followed by "well yeah, but I figured you would".
Her life started on a downhill spiral about a year after we first crossed paths. It would appear to improve slightly and then something else would go wrong. I lost track of her a little over a year ago but I keep hoping she will show back up in my inbox. As near as I can tell she's still alive out there somewhere but I can't work out why I can't find a trace of her.
helenS · 36-40, F
No, never. It's because I see relationships as an expression of my freedom, not as some sort of destiny. I leave that to more romantically inclined women.
As a result, my relationships don't end in a bad way. I'm still on very good terms with (almost) all my ex'es, I meet some of them occasionally, I'm glad when I see they are in a happy new relationship, and I wish them all the best.
As a result, my relationships don't end in a bad way. I'm still on very good terms with (almost) all my ex'es, I meet some of them occasionally, I'm glad when I see they are in a happy new relationship, and I wish them all the best.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Emotional yes - and its the one that hurt the most.
SW-User
I believed so at the time but when I think back to it, it is very likely I inflated it in my mind because it is how I wanted to see it.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@SW-User Aidoo, I think many people do that. Fall in love with the idea of someone-what they see they could be-instead of what they truly are. Love to you, Aidoo. :)
SW-User
@PoetryNEmotion Indeed. I fell in love with the potential I saw but they did not. ❤️ Lots of love to you too beautiful soul.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@SW-User Thank you for your presence here, Aidoo. When I see you like this or I see your footsteps here, I feel a sense of peace. You, beautiful soul, you. :)
Carissimi · F
No. I’ve never thought this. I can say the opposite ... I can’t believe how bad that relationship was. Never in my wildest imaginings could I have envisioned such a relationship. I still don’t understand it.
Thatsright · 61-69, M
@Carissimi I don’t understand it either.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
The sex in my last relationship was insane. When we connected it was magic. Nothing ever felt so good.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
Physical, yes. She's no more! It all happened too fast and then she was snatched away.
TexChik · F
Only once. 18 years and still going strong.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Yes. I met her on EP.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I had one.
PoetryNEmotion · F
No, just no.
SW-User
Nah Joni I knew exactly what I had when I had it and still do
firefall · 61-69, M
Yes. Twice in my life, so far
SW-User
Once yes
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Yep.
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