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✨Hard truths about relationships ✨

Hi love 🥰
Here’s some really hard truths about relationships that might be uncomfy to hear. ❤️

Adult relationships are triggering and conditional.
All relationships will at some point trigger old wounds. And you’ll either work through them, try to avoid them, or run from intimacy.
Your partner is not your parent they have every right to leave at any point for any reason.
Your partner doesn’t have to and isn’t going to meet every single one of your needs.
No matter how well you think someone knows you they cannot read your mind, either communicate what’s difficult to articulate or be disappointed.
Your partner is not responsible for your well being or happiness.
Putting your partner on a pedestal is cruel, unfair, and harmful to the relationship.
BlueVeins · 22-25
Your partner is not your parent they have every right to leave at any point for any reason.

harsh as hell but also extremely important. and relationship entitlement is baked into like half of all pop songs holy shit.
Putting your partner on a pedestal is cruel, unfair, and harmful to the relationship.
I deserve to be worshipped. 😤
@Nadie I’m so bad with this one. I immediately felt guilt when I read it because I do it all the time 🤭
@Stark I always say I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him. He doesn't disagree. 😂
@Nadie that’s hilarious 🤣
SW-User
Did you write this? I only see truths
@SW-User no, it came from a video I saw online 😊
Truth. 🖤🖤🖤
Dusty101 · F
He doesn't meet every single one of my needs,
And I don't expect him too. That would be too claustrophobic, and he certainly doesn't need a second child.
ExtremeNext · 31-35
Are you related to Dr Phil in any way 🤔
@ExtremeNext Lmfaooo no I just see these videos online and stuff they say resonates with me 😌
ExtremeNext · 31-35
@Stark OK 🙄 😁
IamBack · 31-35, M
Adult human love is like human love to fish.

You catch a fish to eat it because you “love” how it tastes and you “love” the nourishment it provides for your body, not because you “love” the fish. If you truly loved the fish, you wouldn’t kill it eh?

So I agree with everything you say here.
summersong · F
You are so wise 💚
Very true. Expecting them to meet expectations they can never hold up to in the first place is just setting them up for failure and is very unfair without giving them the proper chance in the first place
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
It depends who you're dating I like to think I'm very easy to get along with
Classified · M
Does
...they have every right to leave at any point for any reason.
that mean that marriage vows are irrelevant?
Stay solo is The only best one can do to oneself.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
Words of wisdom
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Well done. 🤗
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Bang5luts · M
What if you're a dirty year old virgin? Asking for the guy down the street..

 
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