He disappeared again

My boyfriend who I met online, left last week to his country after spending months together
I been trying to call him since yesterday and he hasn't answered
He just vanished
Without a trace
I guess that's just summer love ❤️

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Carissimi · F

Again? He’s done this before?

Collegegirl23 · 31-35, F

Yeah the last time he was here before he left@Carissimi

Carissimi · F

So you gave him another chance. Are you going to give him a third chance? @Collegegirl23

Collegegirl23 · 31-35, F

The problem is when he is with me he is great but when he goes back to his country I hardly hear from him and I am beginning to think he might be bipolar or something @Carissimi

Carissimi · F

I doubt he’s bipolar. I think he’s having a nice time with you when he’s with you, then when he goes home, it’s out of sight, out of mind. If you enjoy these romantic interludes, and don’t think of him as your boyfriend (because boyfriends don’t just disappear) and don’t have feelings for him that would break your heart, then nothing lost. @Collegegirl23

Collegegirl23 · 31-35, F

I guess so I guess it was just summer love @Carissimi

justanothername · 51-55, M

@Collegegirl23 what country does he live in?

Threepio

@Collegegirl23

The problem is when he is with me he is great but when he goes back to his country I hardly hear from him

Sounds like he might have a totally sucky phone plan.....

Or perhaps he doesn't want his parents to know that he is making "girlfriend' choices on his own without their input.

Collegegirl23 · 31-35, F

@Threepio yes he came back turns out his friend stole his phone and put it back when he couldn't hack it