Guys here's the real playbook for your love life.
1) Bottom line if your Mom (or Dad if you're closer) doesn't like her then it's not going to work. Parents know better. Unless your parents didn't raise you then this one is pointless.
2) Never cheat. Don't commit to anything unless you plan on giving it 100%. How do you expect someone to be loyal to you if you can't be loyal to someone else?
3) Sex is overrated. What you're really looking for is someone who can make you think that this hellhole world isn't so bad when you're with them. Not saying there doesn't have to be an attraction, there definitely does, but if you look up and you're entire relationship is based on sex it may be time to cut slingload.
4) Do what makes you happy. Just because all your friends are getting married or your parents pester you about it doesn't mean you have to jump into anything. It's ok to be that single guy living in an apartment in your 30s focusing on your career and pretty much living like you're still in college. Trust me, all your married friends secretly wish they were you and are living vicariously through you.
5) Don't change too much about yourself for someone else. It's ok sometimes to let someone else help you see a positive change you need to make, but don't let them turn you into someone you're not. You'll only end up resenting that person.
Finally, always remember you are what you think you are worth. Everyone of us has the ability to be smooth, you just have to reach down and understand deep down that you are awesome. Once you realize that you can grab life by the horns (because I look at it as a charging bull) and make it your bitch.
2) Never cheat. Don't commit to anything unless you plan on giving it 100%. How do you expect someone to be loyal to you if you can't be loyal to someone else?
3) Sex is overrated. What you're really looking for is someone who can make you think that this hellhole world isn't so bad when you're with them. Not saying there doesn't have to be an attraction, there definitely does, but if you look up and you're entire relationship is based on sex it may be time to cut slingload.
4) Do what makes you happy. Just because all your friends are getting married or your parents pester you about it doesn't mean you have to jump into anything. It's ok to be that single guy living in an apartment in your 30s focusing on your career and pretty much living like you're still in college. Trust me, all your married friends secretly wish they were you and are living vicariously through you.
5) Don't change too much about yourself for someone else. It's ok sometimes to let someone else help you see a positive change you need to make, but don't let them turn you into someone you're not. You'll only end up resenting that person.
Finally, always remember you are what you think you are worth. Everyone of us has the ability to be smooth, you just have to reach down and understand deep down that you are awesome. Once you realize that you can grab life by the horns (because I look at it as a charging bull) and make it your bitch.
