Using Rules to Manage Your Submissive
Many have reached out to me with private messages asking me specific details about my D/s relatonship with my sub wife cindy...aka Madam'sHo. The answer is both simple and complex.
Our's is a D/s relationship built upon a set of written rules upon which we've both agreed. Our "rule book" is a living, breathing document that is periodically reviewed and updated to add, modify, or delete rules as we see fit. It's a collaborative effort, and cindy provides a lot of the input regarding how she would like to be handled. Not all suggested rules make it into the book, of course. Each of us has some level of veto power, though I can override cindy in certain circumstances.
Our rules are very extensive and can get complicated. There are far too many for me to list in this one post, but I'll provide a few examples. We have rules regarding how cindy is to address me. Likewise, I can be very creative in calling her all kinds of degrading and humiliating names. I have control of her wardrobe and can dress her as I see fit, though she is a technical professional and I don't push the limits in ways that would put her career in jeopardy. I do have some fun with her knickers, makeup and nail polish and will sometimes put a subtle message on her body, like writing an "L" on her thigh with my lippy...just as a reminder to her of her ownership.
People always ask me about how I administer discipline. It's based upon rule violations, of course. Each punishable offense is documented, so if cindy breaks the rules, she knows what's likely to be coming. Not all rule violations are punishable. For those that meet the threshold of requiring disciplinary action, the extent and severity of the punishment depends on egregousness of the violation. People seem rather keen on knowing whether or not I spank cindy. I have, but not often. Only a few of the rule violations are punishable by spanking. Plus, there are other disciplinary measures I prefer. I will also note that cindy is very well aware of the rules, so violations are infrequent and typically minor. Occasionally she'll act out forcing me to grab the hair brush and drop her knickers.
I hope this provides some insight into our relationship. I want you all to know that my slutty wife is the love of my life! 馃挊
Our's is a D/s relationship built upon a set of written rules upon which we've both agreed. Our "rule book" is a living, breathing document that is periodically reviewed and updated to add, modify, or delete rules as we see fit. It's a collaborative effort, and cindy provides a lot of the input regarding how she would like to be handled. Not all suggested rules make it into the book, of course. Each of us has some level of veto power, though I can override cindy in certain circumstances.
Our rules are very extensive and can get complicated. There are far too many for me to list in this one post, but I'll provide a few examples. We have rules regarding how cindy is to address me. Likewise, I can be very creative in calling her all kinds of degrading and humiliating names. I have control of her wardrobe and can dress her as I see fit, though she is a technical professional and I don't push the limits in ways that would put her career in jeopardy. I do have some fun with her knickers, makeup and nail polish and will sometimes put a subtle message on her body, like writing an "L" on her thigh with my lippy...just as a reminder to her of her ownership.
People always ask me about how I administer discipline. It's based upon rule violations, of course. Each punishable offense is documented, so if cindy breaks the rules, she knows what's likely to be coming. Not all rule violations are punishable. For those that meet the threshold of requiring disciplinary action, the extent and severity of the punishment depends on egregousness of the violation. People seem rather keen on knowing whether or not I spank cindy. I have, but not often. Only a few of the rule violations are punishable by spanking. Plus, there are other disciplinary measures I prefer. I will also note that cindy is very well aware of the rules, so violations are infrequent and typically minor. Occasionally she'll act out forcing me to grab the hair brush and drop her knickers.
I hope this provides some insight into our relationship. I want you all to know that my slutty wife is the love of my life! 馃挊
31-35, F
