How are we supposed to respond if a S.O. is about to abandon us?..

Abandonment is painful..I don’t know if I can behave well when someone is doing it badly. ESP if they make things up instead of talking you about leaving in a calm and sincere way. I would cry, shout at, be angry within our four walls if the other will pick a fight just to make it. How could be an issue? Just when or how it look like..