Boyfriend Has girl “best friend”

He says he liked her in the past, so I really don’t trust it. The thing is, I use to not want it to be true that he could still potentially have feelings for her but now I sort of do want it to be because I’m just tired of seeing it and second guessing us.
He’s a sweet guy, I don’t think he’s cheating on me right now but I fear what may happen in the future between them and I just don’t wanna be involved. Can I please have some opinions

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SW-User

It depends on how much you're willing to trust, invest, and build with this guy. Talk to him, tell him everything you're feeling about the situation, insecurities and all. If he's truly meant to be with you, he'll establish clear boundaries with this friend.

If this person is just a platonic friend and he's truly trustworthy, he can still have her in his life as a friend. But if the situation is too much for you and you feel as though it will constantly take away from your peace of mind, tell him that.

If he truly cares for you and wants to spend life with you, he wouldn't jeopardize anything that would risk losing you. He'll work something out and attempt to make peace on both ends.

If it's the opposite and he doesn't even make an effort to give you peace of mind, you just aren't as high of a priority as you thought you were, no offense.

Rambler · 61-69, M

There has to be trust to have a chance to work

Edashh2399 · 26-30, F

No I’m not offended at all, this is amazing advice and I’m so glad you took time out of your day to give it. He is a sweet guy, he tells me to talk to him to give me peace of mind but I don’t wanna trouble him or make him feel trapped. @SW-User

SW-User

@Edashh2399 No problem. Talking to him about these things are serious and can make or break a relationship. It shouldn't make him feel troubled or trapped. If it does, he's not the one.

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