Have you spent more time in your life as a single person? Or ‘attached’ in some way? And would you change it?

When I actually think about it, the majority of my life I have spent as one half of a couple. In all my 50-some years I can count on my fingers, the years I’ve spent single.

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Wallflow3r

Your smile looks very warm and friendly! 💛 I myself have been in relationships more then being single which I wished it was the other way around. I’ve found myself to be quite dependent emotionally and financially on people I’ve dated which I think isn’t the best. ☹️

PhoenixPhail · M

@Wallflow3r You can always make adjustments in that.

Wallflow3r

I am happy, but I feel very dependent on my S/O and feel I should be more independent but it’s so nice being taken care of at the same time.@PhoenixPhail

ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F

@Wallflow3r I hear you….it’s hard not to become dependent in some ways, when relationships are designed so that you CAN lean on/depend on a person. (And thank you for the compliment!) 💕