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Am I overthinking?

I recently started dating this guy, I’m still getting to know him and I like him, but a part of me is also wondering what it would be like to be with other people. Is this a sign that he’s not the right one for me, or am I overthinking?
Kenna123 · 18-21, F
I feel you as well. And i definitely know it doesn't mean "hes not the one" or whatever. but this could be because you want to make sure you are choosing the right person. I personally am an over thinker as well so i get you. Just give it time, and if you dont like the man you are dating and your feelings for this other guy grow stronger, i would seriously do some reflecting and talk to your current partner about it.

Hope this helps in some way xx
EndlessDaze · 22-25, F
@Kenna123 You get it!🤣 My overthinking overthinks, it’s bad😂
I definitely do want to make sure I choose the right person. Of course when I was single and ready to mingle there was no one but now it’s too much. Thank you❤️
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Are you window shopping or looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with? I would say that if you are looking for that one person, wait till you don't question the decision anymore.
EndlessDaze · 22-25, F
@Roadsterrider Someone to spend the rest of my life with. That makes sense, thank you.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
you should date a lot of people. and see as many as you care to.

when you find someone (someone, not THE ONE) that you want to be exclusive with you cand do that
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
You’re just ready to be exclusive or he doesn’t capture your attention that way. Don’t feel guilty. The worst thing you can do is settle.
EndlessDaze · 22-25, F
@Keepitsimple Funny, things actually didn’t work out with him, it feels like I was settling
SW-User
Your not ready to make that next step
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ByronTheRefinedMan · 100+, M
Pwobably he ith not ye type..., perhaps, Ye might want to date with the most refined man like me.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
How long have you guys been dating ?
EndlessDaze · 22-25, F
@WhateverWorks About a month
WhateverWorks · 36-40
That’s pretty typical then. This is why during the introductory period most people decide to continue getting to know other people until they’ve decided that one of them is particularly special @EndlessDaze
TheotherAndy · 41-45, M
It does seem like that might be the case to me, yes
Theyitis · 36-40, M
Overthinking it. It’s okay.

 
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