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I’m so tired

My sons father got out of jail , He was in there for two months that was not enough. He comes out and Promises me that he’s gonna help me and help me with the baby then I let him come back he’s just smoking weed he goes to sleep in a mess he does not help around the house ever since he came back I’ve been the one getting up in the middle of the night he doesn’t help me with my son , I gotta ask him to do anything which I don’t because he will be passive aggressive, and will be annoyed. He’s very disrespectful and tries to get me pregnant, knowing we do t have anything, he doesn’t care about my feelings, Iv taken plan b .I have to keep reminding him of his responsibilities and he listens but doesn’t do anything different, I need help. My taxes have drained and childcare vouchers are slow, I’m struggling but I’m comfortable.. I have a home, I argued with him and called the police because I’m done , im so battered, iv lost myself, but im comfortable knowing he’s going to get arrested and hopefully do some real time
Make a decision do you want to continue to live in your home or do you want to continue to enable him. Aren't You more important than he is, aren't your kids?
Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F
@Pitchblue I thought of that , I want a home even if it’s just me and ky kids even if we struggle at least we are okay
@Sneakylink34 He's going to get you kicked out of your home. I let someone stay on the couch. Just trying to help. But while I went to work he fought with my neighbors etc and I was given an ultimatum, get rid of this guy or else you will be kicked out of the building. It was hard to get rid of him. He wanted to stay, had no where to go but it was him or a roof over my head. Goodbye.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
So he is out of your life? Change all the locks when he get out serve him with a restraining order. It's time to put your son and yourself first your ex is a liability, Do not really on whether he will be doing long time in jail. he just got to go period . And what about the second hand weed smoke I am sure that is not good for the baby. Another reason to get him out because he and yopu are putting the baby at risk. Yes you because you are allowing it. Unless he smokes outside?
Ummm ya cant just get out of jail and not be on probation you should tell the cops hes smokin weed bye bye abusive dad
@Sneakylink34 wow what a horrible man and so why did you let him back into your house and near your child?
Sneakylink34 · 26-30, F
@TryingtoLava help… I was so wrong
@Sneakylink34 idk how to help im not there but it sounds like you neda say step up or get out cuz he JUST got outa jail so to the police your word will always win over his like now you gota be strong and even get a restraining order itd be a piece of cake
Mktonght · 61-69, M
I have no idea where you are, but you certainly should have some real opt to get him permanently out. Call legal aid and talk to a lawyer. Also call police and be strong once he is out don’t weaken and let him back into your life. I work with addiction daily and he sounds typical of an addict who will use you till he destroys you unless your strong.
BigBulge · 41-45, M
Women will never learn that men don't change.
wish you luck, please be careful. 🖤
beaglehunter · 70-79, M
if he is trying to get you pregnant why dont you call the police and have him charged with attempted rape and get a protection order against him and then file for devorce
Fluffybull · F
Get him out of your life

 
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