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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@RogueLoner what do you say?
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Magenta · F
@RogueLoner Haha! My Dad wasn't one to toss around compliments either, but when he did, you knew it was special and meaningful. I have the same discerning semi picky taste.
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Magenta · F
@RogueLoner It does tend to narrow a person down to one thing.
Magenta · F
@RogueLoner Getting complimented on your mind and deeper things means more.

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@RogueLoner I agree that it's degrading, but disagree that it's all women want...only some or many, but not all. lol
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I have no problem telling somebody they look beautiful or handsome. There’s nothing wrong with saying nice things.if they are hot they are hot. 🤷🏻♀️@SW-User
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@RogueLoner I understood...and I agreed. lol I don't wish to be seen as hot by all men... just one who also sees me as more than a body.

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@Keepitsimple It's just another popularity thing on here. lol
I don't mind being told I look nice or even pretty, but "hot" says people are seeing me in a whole different way.
I don't wish for many to see me as "hot"
I don't mind being told I look nice or even pretty, but "hot" says people are seeing me in a whole different way.
I don't wish for many to see me as "hot"
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@SW-User depending who it comes from “hot” means screwable but sometimes it’s just meant that they look extra good. If I tell my best friend she looks hot it doesn’t mean I want to go to her bedroom. It means she has it going on. Nothing wrong with that.
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@Keepitsimple It means more than the normal pretty or beautiful... it has a different context no matter who says it.
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@RogueLoner It won't be me! lmao!!
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Magenta · F
@RogueLoner Obvious answer and obvious as to why. It only has to do with how she looks. But, "hot" aka sexy is much more than that.
Magenta · F
@RogueLoner Many (here) seem to think if body parts are revealed or partially revealed, you're hot. 😄
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@RogueLoner Both. But men sexualize a woman in a leather skirt.

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@Keepitsimple plenty of women do too and for many, it's their intentions.
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@SW-User Yeah, it happens without a doubt but a woman in sweats can make their intentions clear too.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@RogueLoner I’d sweat in leather. I’ll pass.
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