Would you class using Adult private cams or free cams as cheating

@Perry1968 I don’t use them what if there having private cam sessions?
My partner has in the past but not paid on IM LIVE
He told Mr he watched a dominatix fully clothed
Apparently he didn’t interact with her or paid private cam on there . I told him I don’t agree with it as we don’t have a regular sex life yet

@Perry1968 he agreed to stop watching them porn like videos and stuff am fine with

@Jadetherabbit Have you not been with him long? Just curious because you said you don't have regular sex life yet? I'd say if he's pays to cam or cams someone for free and watches or participates in sexual maturation with another person then that's as good as cheating I suppose. Watching porn is fairly normal though imho

@Perry1968 we been together 5 years he says he doesn’t video cam them back from what he says he watched free cams but doesn’t interact with them or pay them. One he used is IM LIVE they are paid private professional but he says he only watched them live fully clothed Dominatrix. From what I know he doesn’t like joining in. As he has his own anxiety over himself with cams and him taking ages to cum

@Perry1968 I agree don’t mind videos gifs pics even but going live on cam watching think one step further
Think it the fact he lied about it. I asked him and ended up shooting him self in the foot when he sent a screenshot accidentally seeing cam site up signed in background.
He says he doesn’t do private paid ones. Only free ones he doesn’t wanna spend a fortune

@Jadetherabbit It's hard to say tbh. I can't call him a liar or say he's being truthful as I don't know him of course. Maybe you should sit and chat and find ways to fulfill your own fantasies and sex life together as a couple.

@Jadetherabbit I agree about the cam thing. Can't say I'd be happy to find a partner interacting with others on cam.

@Perry1968 we did have a chat about it. He didn’t know I didn’t want him on any cam sites. All his defence was he wasn’t paying them private. As that what he thought I meant. Which is true I didn’t but. I just wanted honesty. Not need to cover it up

@Jadetherabbit though he has gone extreme now .he put an adult blocker on his phone so he can’t watch any porn. Didn’t really want him doing that but he is trying to focus on us

@Jadetherabbit Maybe he was embarrassed. But yes either way I wouldn't be happy about cam thing. It's a shame you both can't get a good sex life going of your own. Long relationship s can become stale but you both need to think of what attracted you to eachother when you both first met. Easier said than done though I know.

@Jadetherabbit Sounds like he's trying then atleast. Both do Ur best to try and make love. Sometimes pure lust is needed in relationship s to.

@Perry1968 we are in sex therapy aswell but he been in pervious relationships where he hasn’t been shown and been told he awful in bed

@Perry1968 I agree trying to get some of that back. But like he become comfortable in the relationship he makes effort in other ways then that